Work with me
Parenting can become heavy in ways that are hard to explain.
Not always loud.
Often quiet.
Held in the body.
You may be functioning. Caring. Doing your best -
and still feel reactive, numb, guilty, or constantly on edge.
Sometimes the strain lives inside you.
Sometimes it lives between you and your partner.
This work begins there.
Not with fixing.
With safety.
Why this work exists
Most parents I meet are already overwhelmed by information.
Books.
Podcasts.
Advice.
Methods.
I was too.
For years, I tried to understand my way out of exhaustion and reactivity. I learned. I applied. I tried harder.
But understanding was not the problem.
My body did not feel safe enough to use what I knew.
When the nervous system is braced, even the best guidance cannot land.
So this work was not created from having more answers.
It was created from learning how to feel safer -
in my body, in relationships, and inside daily life.
Only then did change become possible.
That is the foundation of Safety-Led Parenting™.
What this support is
I work with parents who feel emotionally worn down, and with couples whose relationship has been shaped - and often strained - by parenting.
You may come alone.
Or together.
The focus is not on who is right.
It is not on changing your child.
It is on restoring steadiness inside the parent, and safety inside the relationship around the child.
When safety grows, behaviour changes without being forced.
When safety grows, conflict softens.
When safety grows, clarity returns.
How we work
Our work is slow, respectful, and practical.
We pay attention to:
how your body responds under stress
how fear shows up as anger, withdrawal, or control
how parenting pressure reshapes partnerships
what helps your nervous system settle
what becomes possible when it does
There is no performance here.
No parenting style to copy.
No version of you to become.
Only more room inside yourself.
What parents and couples share
More grounded as a parent
“This year has been challenging, but with Sakshi’s coaching I gradually shifted not only my parenting, but also my relationship with my partner and my approach to my own health.”
— Parent of two
Confident to parent differently
“The sessions equipped me with the confidence to parent in a way that feels true to me, rather than repeating how I was raised — while still guiding my child with clarity.”
— Parent
We found our way back to each other
“Sakshi made us feel safe and never judged. She helped us see our relationship differently. We are back together as a family, and I would recommend her to any couple needing this support.”
— Couple client
Gaining clarity
“These sessions gave me clarity on how to respond to my child without reacting. I learned how to step back when I’m triggered and feel more steady as a parent.”
— Parent
A steady guide
“Sakshi became a guiding presence in my parenting and inner work. Her approach is calm, compassionate, and deeply supportive.”
— Parent
What this is not
This is not:
behaviour training
rule-based parenting
motivation or mindset coaching
quick repair
or a place where anyone is blamed
You are not treated as the problem.
You are treated as the starting point.
Sessions are available online.
You can work with me:
individually, as a parent
or together, as a couple
Session format, frequency, and next steps are discussed calmly after initial contact.
No pressure.
If you’re considering this
People don’t come to this work to be understood.
They come because they want to feel different inside.
Quieter.
Clearer.
Less braced.
If something in you is tired of holding everything alone, you’re welcome to reach out.